Go for it

I’m always amazed at the waves people catch when I think that they are too far away from where the wave will break or I think that the wave won’t even break. They paddle for it, they catch it, and I’m just sitting there, about 5 feet from where they started.  Go for the wave …

You don’t know until you try it

Yesterday, I had to twist my 4-year-old son’s arm to get out of the house and bike around but once we were biking around, he was gleefully shouting, “This is so much fun! Next time, I’m just going to say, ‘Yes!’”  Next time just say Yes.

Things I Learned from My Grandmother (#6): Set big goals

I will always remember how my grandmother wailed over my grandfather’s body just after he passed away in the hospital. They were married for over 60 years. I remember her saying later, “I guess we won’t make it to our goal of visiting 75 countries.” I was astonished that her goal was so high. “How …

Things I Learned from My Grandmother (#5): Be frugal

My grandmother was frugal. Not cheap, but frugal. I remember watching her cut napkins in half. And they were small napkins to begin with. I remember her telling me of a young man she dated whose family was well off and after spending some time with them she thought to herself, “No wonder they’re rich, …

Things I Learned from My Grandmother (#4): Question something until you understand it

My grandmother was a great questioner. Because of that, she understood a lot of things. She would always read the newspaper, especially the financial section, not necessarily to glean specific advice on specific stocks and companies, but to get a sense of how the experts thought about things. She was good at understanding the big …