When you think about people and whether you like spending time with them or not, the ultimate test is picking one person to spend the rest of your life with. The person to be the mother or father of your children. That says it all.
When you think about all of your friends and family and whom you respect and admire and why, the ultimate test is asking yourself who you would like to raise your children in the event that you and your spouse both die while your kids are still young. With whom would you entrust your kids?
When you think about finding work that you enjoy, the ultimate test is whether or not you would do it for free on a Monday at 9am if you were already a millionaire.
Whatever you’re doing, or thinking about doing, there is some ultimate test. Find it and use it to make your important decisions.